Currently
one of the books I'm reading is Good to Great by Jim Collins. I really
like this book. It was one of the amazing prizes that I won for being MA
teacher of the month. The books basic premise is that good is the opposite of great.
There are so many people in the World that settle for the good in life. But how
many people are willing to take their good and turn it into great! How many
good doctors can you name? Now how many GREAT doctors can you name? See
the difference? So many times when I would get into conversations about money
and success, I would hear these words: "I just want to be
comfortable." I cringe every time I hear those words. Why are we so
content with being comfortable? What's even worse is that we live in a society
that praises the efforts of great people, yet we lack the discipline to create
the same greatness within ourselves. I decided that I will not allow anyone or
anything to make me good or average.
Eric
Thomas, the author of The Secret to Success, and Greatness is Upon
You; says he hates average people. "They always pull you into
their reality." And I agree. Often average people are so content with
their surroundings and are never willing to work to make change in their lives.
They don't have a sense of urgency. I noticed they waste most of their time
sleeping, and complaining about how things never go their way. Great people are
just the opposite. They create their reality to be the best situation.
They don't wait for someone to give them permission to be great, they just are.
So I came up with a list of 10 things average people do that stops them from
becoming great!
1. Average People Do Not Take Ownership
Average
people love to place the blame on others for their problems. They can never see
their own flaws for looking at someone else’s. Even if they know they are wrong
in a situation; average people will try to make themselves seem right or create
a diversion just to take the blame off of themselves.
2. Average People Don't Respect Time.
Time
is money. And more importantly, time is TIME. If you waste money, you can make
it back. If you waste my time, I CANT GET IT BACK. That's the difference.
Average people don't move with a sense of urgency. This is crucial when you
have an employee, or group member like this. This energy can become infectious.
3. Average People Wish Instead of Plan.
I
had to learn about the power of a plan the hard way. My whole life I would just
go with the flow. And this always felt like the best things to do, as I got
older I realized how much I wasn't getting accomplished personally and
professionally because I wouldn't take the time to plan. If you have a
dream with no plan to get there, all you have is a wish.
4. Average People Reward Themselves Too Quickly.
You
ever meet people that say, "you have to just treat yourself
sometimes"? I think that is a bunch of crap. Treating yourself is fine,
AFTER YOU HAVE WORKED HARD TO ACHIEVE A GOAL. But just because it's Friday, or
its your birthday is no excuse to abandon your plan for success. I believe in
rewards, bit not every weekend.
5. Average People Never See The Big Picture.
Average
people are productive. They spend a lot of time "multi - tasking" to
look busy. They are always in a rush to do something needs to be done right
this minute. They don't stop and take a look back to see if all of their
busy work is paying off for them in terms of their long term goals.
6. Average People Do The Bare Minimum.
I
see this all of the time with my classes. If I say write 2 paragraphs, that's
what I will get from most of my students. A great person will strive to do the
best work possible; even if no one is checking.
7. Average People Are Jealous of Others Success.
I
love the quote, " You're jealous of my success like we don't have the same
24 hours." Simply put, average people spend time hating on others success
instead of learning what did they do to become successful.
8. Average People Are Only Concerned About Themselves.
One
thing that I have learned is that everyone feels that they are the most
important person in the World. No one wants to follow you, or listen to what
you have to say if you are not trying to help them. Giving is the best gift you
could ever receive. I'm always trying to see how I could give more of myself to
help others. This in turn ends up being more of a blessing to the giver than
the recipient.
9. Average People Are Reactive Not Proactive.
Average
people react to situations instead of creating situations. Being proactive
means to take initiative in a situation at work or at home instead of waiting
for someone to ask you, or give you permission to act.
10. Average People Quit After They Fail.
Every
GREAT person failed and kept trying. Failure doesn't mean defeat. Failure is
meant to be learned from. The most successful people in the World failed many
times over before they saw any success. You must learn to dust yourself off and
try again. This one quality alone will separate you from most people if you
apply it.
Now,
ask yourself; " Do I want to be average or GREAT? Tell me your thoughts
about this topic? Are you stuck in the Average zone? Do you have what it takes
to be great? Leave your comments below and follow @OTGriffin